Body Language – Texas Shooting, Chad Read and Kyle Carruth

Unfortunately, I’ve been around men like these two, I used to work for Child/Family Services Court. Some of the cases were just out of control. Child custody cases are pretty bad, and I saw some really bad ones. Let’s just say you can’t stay in that job for too long and remain sane. The animosity between the parents and stepparents is an ugly business and each one wants to see the other parent suffer. Personally, I wanted to remove the child from both homes. But it wasn’t up to me, it was with the Judge. There was one case that I can never forget, the mother was a horrible person, she lied that the child’s father had raped their son, that he beat her senseless, she got “friends” to back up her claims. She wanted to destroy her ex-husband and tank his career. The Sheriff’s department did an investigation into the mother’s claims, they found nothing to her claims. She didn’t want her son to have a relationship with their son (who was just 5 years old). She was the one who had an affair with her boss (who was also married), her husband filed for divorce for infidelity and fraud. The birth father was the most stable of the lot of these toxic adults. He lost a lot of money fighting for custody. Divorces are bad, but custody cases are even worse. So, these parents play these sick games, hiding their child from the other parent, lying about their relationship, so I can see both sides to this argument in this video. We don’t know how toxic that relationship is between the former spouses, and I don’t want to make a judgment without knowing the background. They should’ve called the police or the sheriff’s office. Pushing someone who’s angry, who thinks the spouse is hiding their son from him and was being aggressive, shouldn’t lead to a shooting and a murder, that’s just extreme. What idiot was shooting this footage and allowed this to escalate to this outcome? Put the fucking camera down and put a stop to this fight… what is wrong with these people? There are alternatives and violence aren’t the way out.  It’s about hurting the other person and what will cause the most stress in this situation. But I’ve seen some mothers who were some doozy, they made up stories. It’s just an ugly situation. I only lasted in that job for 9 months and then I transferred to another dept. It was just a very toxic and hostile environment and I give a lot of respect to the Judges who deal with these cases every day. In the end, the father got sole custody of his son. The judge saw which parent was the most stable, and that person was the father, who loved his little boy. The mother because of the games and lies she told was denied custody and visitation, she had to pay him for child support, which didn’t go over too well with her and her lawyer. She was just too unstable and the whole affair thing was just too toxic and hostile to place that little boy in that environment. It’s why I will never marry or have kids. I’ve seen too much ugliness that will last me for a lifetime. In the end, it’s the children or child who will suffer the most. This is not a good thing to put children into that situation. It’s unhealthy for them.